Hello Everyone!
I just finished reading Anna Sophia & Elizabeth Botkin's book "It's (not that) Complicated", and I couldn't resist doing a book review! It was a huge eye opener as well as a good reminder in different areas... However, this is my first book review so bare with me as I travel this new field of giving a book review :)
So, the main theme in the book is how to relate to guys in a healthy, sane and biblical way. They approach this subject with humor and wit, while keeping the readers attention by going straight to Scripture for their answers to all those guy-girl relationship questions.
The Botkin sisters are fantastic writers and keep things "down to earth". They realize and understand that most of us struggle with at least some, if not all, of the questions and circumstances that they talk about in the book....and they have worked through many of these struggles/questions themselves which makes their book so much more relatable knowing the authors have experienced what you may have experienced at some point in your life.
They start out the book talking about why guy-girl relationships are so complicated in today's world because of the influences that swirl around us every day in the music, movies, books, lifestyles and cultural norms that surround us every day. However, they aren't hesitant to point out that every century has had it's own set of problems to deal with and ours is no exception! They bring you right to the root of the problem by page 10.
"However, our circumstances aren't the only thing making life messy for us. The first question we need to sort out is the complicated-ness inside each of our hearts. The battle between the spirit and he flesh. The desire to surrender our will to God and the desire to be captain of our own ship. The question of whether to consider others, or ourselves, more important. The desire to do what is right and the desire to do what is wrong....We can't decide what our circumstances will be, but how we will respond to them is up to us."